You might think that you’re alone on this experience of intrusive thoughts, but guess what? It’s really common. So common, in fact, that even my previous therapist told me he experienced intrusive thoughts. He once said to me, “The difference between me and you is not about having intrusive thoughts. It’s that I know how […]
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Emotions: Why We Need Them
Can you imagine not feeling pain? It might seem like a great thing, but what would warn you of harm? How would you know not to put your hand on a hot stove, for example? Well, we need emotions to give us important information. In a previous blog we talked about the concept of “good” […]
Processing Emotions
How do you process your emotions? Do you try to ignore or push them away, maybe you talk to someone about how you feel (usually this can show up as venting), or do you sit down with your favorite comfort food? These might provide immediate relief or distraction, but in the long-term they probably didn’t […]
How to Manage Unavoidable Triggers
Managing triggers for mental health can be challenging, especially when circumstances prevent us from avoiding them entirely. When you’re confronted with a situation that evokes negative emotions or memories what can you do? I think first it’s important to recognize what might be a trigger. Some things might be easy to identify already such as […]
Riding the Wave: Managing Cycles of Depression
Depression is a complex mental health condition that affects millions of people worldwide. Its cyclical nature often makes it challenging to manage. However, there are strategies that can help individuals navigate the waves of depression and find periods of hope and resilience. Let’s explore the journey of a person I’ll call Ben (not his real […]
Is it Possible to Choose our Mindset?
I want to tell you about someone I know. This man is always calmly positive and never says an unkind word about anyone. When he talks about things going on in his life he doesn’t share it in a complaining way. He seems to ride the waves of life and accepts the ups and downs. […]
Seeking the Support You Need
Even at our best and healthiest, navigating through life unsupported can be challenging. Most of us need connections in some way to some degree whether with family, friends, spiritual/religious community, etc. These connections can offer stability, regularity, safety, feedback, affection, laughter, support, a way for us to give of ourselves and contribute, too. There are […]
Navigating the Depths of Grief
Grief, a powerful force that can consume even the most resilient of souls, has a way of reshaping our lives in the most unexpected ways. I know this all too well, as I found myself plummeting into the depths of despair when I lost three people close to me in a short period of time. […]
The Healing Power of Forgiveness
As I sit down to share my thoughts on forgiveness, the first thing that comes to mind is that nobody is perfect. I would venture to guess that in some way we have all transgressed and hurt someone. I think that gives space for compassion for oneself and for others. Sometimes words or actions are […]
Navigating Through Mental Health Symptoms
Dealing with mental health challenges can be overwhelming and isolating. It’s important to remember that you are not alone, and there is support available. Here are some tips to help you navigate through the symptoms of mental health and take steps towards better well-being. Recognize and Validate Your Symptoms: Mental health symptoms can manifest in […]