Life is uncertain, nothing is guaranteed except that you will experience disappointment and setbacks. Here are some “symptoms” of a victim mindset: How to Break Out of Victim Mindset: I know that life can throw a curveball. I know that we would rather have everything the way we want. I know because my life hasn’t […]
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Setting Goals: What Do You Aim For?
Imagine this…you’re playing miniature golf, you see the hole. There’s also a little rip and loose cloth of the green to the right of the hole. You’re checking your posture and grip, you look toward the hole, then you look at the ripped green. In your mind you’re thinking “don’t aim toward that rip”, and […]
Celebrate Success
Do you notice and acknowledge your small wins? And when you do, do you take even a moment to celebrate?Acknowledging small, personal successes is crucial for fostering self-growth, boosting self-esteem, and maintaining motivation on the journey to achieving larger goals. While grand achievements may be rare and take time, recognizing the smaller milestones along the […]
Is it Possible to Choose our Mindset?
I want to tell you about someone I know. This man is always calmly positive and never says an unkind word about anyone. When he talks about things going on in his life he doesn’t share it in a complaining way. He seems to ride the waves of life and accepts the ups and downs. […]
The Healing Power of Forgiveness
As I sit down to share my thoughts on forgiveness, the first thing that comes to mind is that nobody is perfect. I would venture to guess that in some way we have all transgressed and hurt someone. I think that gives space for compassion for oneself and for others. Sometimes words or actions are […]
The News Overload: How I Find Balance in a World of Information
About a year ago I started noticing increasing anxiety. It was obvious to me that I was scrolling news sources way too much. But, I felt compelled to pick up my phone and look again. I have come to realize the significant impact that listening to too much news can have on my mental well-being. […]
The Healing Power of Humor
Laughter truly is the best medicine! I cherish a good laugh, don’t you? First, I must admit, I’m not funny at all. But, I am a good audience! My daughter is a riot and I try occasionally to convince her to go professional and make me rich. I’m grateful to live with someone who cracks […]
Embracing Self-Compassion: Learning to Be Patient with Mental Health Challenges
I know how easy it can be to feel frustrated and impatient with ourselves. We often set high expectations and beat ourselves up when we don’t meet them, leading to a cycle of negative self-talk and self-blame. However, through my own journey, I’ve learned the importance of being patient with myself and embracing self-compassion in […]
Using Your 5 Senses
When it comes to managing my mental health, I’ve learned that sometimes the simplest tools can have the most profound impact. One strategy that has been incredibly helpful for me is using my five senses to uplift my mental health. Our senses – sight, smell, taste, touch, and sound – have a direct connection to […]
Coping Skills – Looking Forward to Something
There are all kinds of coping skills. Coping skills are things that help during difficult times. Instead of negative or destructive coping skills, Trillium, and this blog focus on positive coping skills. Today, let’s talk about the coping skill of ‘looking forward to something.’ Looking forward to something that makes you happy is a form […]