Have you ever had anyone tell you to pull yourself up from your bootstraps, to grit and force your way through? While having determination can be a helpful trait and sometimes even suck-it-up-buttercup can be useful in certain situations, these traits should not be your only tools. If you wanted to build something you wouldn’t […]
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Riding the Wave: Managing Cycles of Depression
Depression is a complex mental health condition that affects millions of people worldwide. Its cyclical nature often makes it challenging to manage. However, there are strategies that can help individuals navigate the waves of depression and find periods of hope and resilience. Let’s explore the journey of a person I’ll call Ben (not his real […]
Seeking the Support You Need
Even at our best and healthiest, navigating through life unsupported can be challenging. Most of us need connections in some way to some degree whether with family, friends, spiritual/religious community, etc. These connections can offer stability, regularity, safety, feedback, affection, laughter, support, a way for us to give of ourselves and contribute, too. There are […]
The Healing Power of Forgiveness
As I sit down to share my thoughts on forgiveness, the first thing that comes to mind is that nobody is perfect. I would venture to guess that in some way we have all transgressed and hurt someone. I think that gives space for compassion for oneself and for others. Sometimes words or actions are […]
The Benefit of Routine
In a world that often feels chaotic and unpredictable, I have discovered a source of stability and grounding: having a consistent routine. Having a consistent routine provides a sense of order and control amidst the uncertainties of daily life. It allows me to establish a rhythm and frees up mental energy for more important tasks. […]
Budgeting: Managing Limited Income and Being Content
I know that managing finances can be an added stressor. When you’re dealing with limited income, it can feel overwhelming and challenging to make ends meet. I’ve learned that budgeting can be a powerful tool to take control of my finances and find contentment, even with limited resources. The first step I took in budgeting […]
Embracing Self-Compassion: Learning to Be Patient with Mental Health Challenges
I know how easy it can be to feel frustrated and impatient with ourselves. We often set high expectations and beat ourselves up when we don’t meet them, leading to a cycle of negative self-talk and self-blame. However, through my own journey, I’ve learned the importance of being patient with myself and embracing self-compassion in […]
How to Have Fun…Seriously!
Life can be a challenging journey. I know firsthand how it feels to struggle, and for a long time, I found it difficult to experience joy and have fun. But over time, I’ve learned that it’s possible to find happiness and have fun, even in challenging times. And yes, I’m serious! One of the keys […]
Gaming for Mental Health: How Video Games Have Positively Impacted My Son’s Well-being
As a mother, I have witnessed firsthand the transformative power of video games on my son’s mental health. Contrary to the common belief that video games are solely a form of entertainment, I have seen how they have provided my son with much-needed social connections, hobbies, and a sense of purpose that have greatly improved […]
“This Too Shall Pass”: Staying Hopeful Even When Mental Health Symptoms Arise
I understand how daunting it can be when symptoms arise. The weight of anxiety, depression, or other mental health conditions can feel overwhelming and unrelenting. But through my journey, I’ve learned that even in the midst of these difficult moments, there is hope. I remind myself, “This too shall pass”. When symptoms arise, it’s easy […]