In 12-step programs there is the saying: God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, The courage to change the things I can, And wisdom to know the difference. I’ve started saying this as I start my day and also throughout the day. It really has helped me to learn to […]
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Riding the Wave: Managing Cycles of Depression
Depression is a complex mental health condition that affects millions of people worldwide. Its cyclical nature often makes it challenging to manage. However, there are strategies that can help individuals navigate the waves of depression and find periods of hope and resilience. Let’s explore the journey of a person I’ll call Ben (not his real […]
Engulfing Parents: Learn to trust yourself
Obviously, our parents play a crucial role in shaping our lives. However, there are instances when parents become overprotective, controlling, and emotionally smothering, leading to a phenomenon known as engulfing parents. Being raised by engulfing parents can stifle individuality, hinder personal growth, and create emotional dependencies. But take heart, healing from this experience is possible, […]
Navigating Through Mental Health Symptoms
Dealing with mental health challenges can be overwhelming and isolating. It’s important to remember that you are not alone, and there is support available. Here are some tips to help you navigate through the symptoms of mental health and take steps towards better well-being. Recognize and Validate Your Symptoms: Mental health symptoms can manifest in […]
Do You Compare Yourself with Others?
Ever felt like you’re constantly comparing yourself to others who seem to have it all together? Yeah, me too. It’s tough when you’re grappling with mental health challenges, and it feels like everyone else is sailing through life effortlessly. But here’s the truth: you’re not alone, and you’re not any less valuable or worthy because […]
Self-Care Priorities: Identifying Your Needs and Wants
We must practice self-care to maintain mental, emotional, and physical health. However, figuring out where to begin when taking care of ourselves can be challenging. It was for me! Finding your needs and desires is the first step toward practicing effective self-care. Understanding the difference between needs and wants is crucial to prioritizing self-care effectively. […]
Self-care that may prevent crisis
Taking care of yourself is essential if you want to deal with the stresses of life that you can’t control. If you take care of your body and mind, you’ll be in a better position to thrive, but many people mistakenly consider self-care a frivolous extra rather than an essential part of their daily routine. […]
About Resilience
Resilience is the capacity to overcome obstacles, adversity, and stress. It is a skill that may be acquired and enhanced by various activities, including engaging in self-care, creating social networks, or learning coping mechanisms. When you are resilient, you can draw on your inner strength to overcome obstacles or setbacks like losing your job, being […]
A Little About Boundaries
We establish our limits, or boundaries, to safeguard our bodies and our emotional and mental well-being. These are the parameters we define for how we want to be treated by others and how we will react if those parameters are not honored by the other party. There are three types of boundaries: physical, emotional, and […]
Self Care That May Prevent a Crisis
Self-care is an essential part of our daily lives. It’s the little things we do to make sure we’re healthy and happy, like eating a healthy breakfast or taking a relaxing bath. But it’s also a big part of how we take care of ourselves in times of crisis, when the challenges we face are […]