It dawned on me a few weeks ago that I developed a habit of scanning for something to “heal”…I look for a physical or emotional symptom. When I had that realization I paused. In that silent pause I shifted my focus with the intention of looking for what’s positive/good/right (these seem like judgment words, but […]
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A Quick Word on Coping Skills
We’ve written about coping skills on our blog and we’ve gone deeper about coping skills in our book Hope Awakened. I want to say a little more in general about coping skills. Let me share this: A few years ago I experienced several impactful traumas in a very short period of time. I was overwhelmed […]
Dear Diary…Why am I Suffering Today?
Hmmm…let’s see! I feel exhausted. Lyme symptoms are flaring. My son is depressed. My mini fridge is empty except for a few eggs. I could go on and on. But…BUT! Thanks to the skills I learned and implement here’s where I go with all this so I don’t create more suffering: I feel exhausted. Well, […]
Setting Goals: What Do You Aim For?
Imagine this…you’re playing miniature golf, you see the hole. There’s also a little rip and loose cloth of the green to the right of the hole. You’re checking your posture and grip, you look toward the hole, then you look at the ripped green. In your mind you’re thinking “don’t aim toward that rip”, and […]
How to Manage Unavoidable Triggers
Managing triggers for mental health can be challenging, especially when circumstances prevent us from avoiding them entirely. When you’re confronted with a situation that evokes negative emotions or memories what can you do? I think first it’s important to recognize what might be a trigger. Some things might be easy to identify already such as […]
Is it Possible to Choose our Mindset?
I want to tell you about someone I know. This man is always calmly positive and never says an unkind word about anyone. When he talks about things going on in his life he doesn’t share it in a complaining way. He seems to ride the waves of life and accepts the ups and downs. […]
The Healing Power of Humor
Laughter truly is the best medicine! I cherish a good laugh, don’t you? First, I must admit, I’m not funny at all. But, I am a good audience! My daughter is a riot and I try occasionally to convince her to go professional and make me rich. I’m grateful to live with someone who cracks […]
Drink Water for Well-Being
Have you ever noticed how you feel when you’re thirsty? I mean, besides feeling actual thirst…have you noticed any difference in your mental and emotional state? I know I have. It’s embarrassing to admit, but I would actively ignore my thirst on a regular basis. Believe me, I paid the price with anxiety, mental confusion, […]
Using Your 5 Senses
When it comes to managing my mental health, I’ve learned that sometimes the simplest tools can have the most profound impact. One strategy that has been incredibly helpful for me is using my five senses to uplift my mental health. Our senses – sight, smell, taste, touch, and sound – have a direct connection to […]
The Power of Positive Thought
Positive thinking is powerful! Thinking positively can help us overcome challenges, achieve our goals, and live a happier, more fulfilling life. In this blog post, I want to explore the power of positive thought and how it can transform your mindset for success and happiness. When we focus on positive thoughts and emotions and minimize […]