“You really hurt my feelings and that wasn’t right?!?” If someone said that to you, how would you feel and respond? Some people would shut down, some would defend themselves, some would toss back accusations. What if we try this statement instead:”My feelings were hurt when you said that. You must have a reason. Would […]
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Break out of Victim Mindset
Life is uncertain, nothing is guaranteed except that you will experience disappointment and setbacks. Here are some “symptoms” of a victim mindset: How to Break Out of Victim Mindset: I know that life can throw a curveball. I know that we would rather have everything the way we want. I know because my life hasn’t […]
Can You Learn Resilience?
Have you ever had anyone tell you to pull yourself up from your bootstraps, to grit and force your way through? While having determination can be a helpful trait and sometimes even suck-it-up-buttercup can be useful in certain situations, these traits should not be your only tools. If you wanted to build something you wouldn’t […]
Celebrate Success
Do you notice and acknowledge your small wins? And when you do, do you take even a moment to celebrate?Acknowledging small, personal successes is crucial for fostering self-growth, boosting self-esteem, and maintaining motivation on the journey to achieving larger goals. While grand achievements may be rare and take time, recognizing the smaller milestones along the […]
Is it Possible to Choose our Mindset?
I want to tell you about someone I know. This man is always calmly positive and never says an unkind word about anyone. When he talks about things going on in his life he doesn’t share it in a complaining way. He seems to ride the waves of life and accepts the ups and downs. […]
Budgeting: Managing Limited Income and Being Content
I know that managing finances can be an added stressor. When you’re dealing with limited income, it can feel overwhelming and challenging to make ends meet. I’ve learned that budgeting can be a powerful tool to take control of my finances and find contentment, even with limited resources. The first step I took in budgeting […]
How to Have Fun…Seriously!
Life can be a challenging journey. I know firsthand how it feels to struggle, and for a long time, I found it difficult to experience joy and have fun. But over time, I’ve learned that it’s possible to find happiness and have fun, even in challenging times. And yes, I’m serious! One of the keys […]
The Power of Positive Thought
Positive thinking is powerful! Thinking positively can help us overcome challenges, achieve our goals, and live a happier, more fulfilling life. In this blog post, I want to explore the power of positive thought and how it can transform your mindset for success and happiness. When we focus on positive thoughts and emotions and minimize […]
About Resilience
Resilience is the capacity to overcome obstacles, adversity, and stress. It is a skill that may be acquired and enhanced by various activities, including engaging in self-care, creating social networks, or learning coping mechanisms. When you are resilient, you can draw on your inner strength to overcome obstacles or setbacks like losing your job, being […]